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08/10/2016

Why many cases of Divorce?

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  1. I think the main reason for a lot of divorce cases is because the marriages ain't built on love

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    1. Love should be the bedrock of every marriage.. Nice point you made there Chibuike.

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  2. From experience and survey carried out, the major problem causing divorce in marriages is the lack of compatibility between the partners.

    Alot of married couples are not compatible naturally, Especially in Nigeria (though they may love each other). Because of this, their marriage is always filled with unhappiness, and the only way out is divorce.

    I often tell people to marry who they are compatible with naturally. Don't marry for love alone, money or some other trivial reasons, you will regret it in the end. Have you heard of Mad love? People who are in love but don't agree at all in anything. They are always fighting, Quarreling or arguing.

    Try to marry someone you flow naturally with, not for sentiment. One can start with dating someone you are compatible with naturally, which could then lead to marriage.

    One may ask "How do I know who is compatible with me?" The answer is by studying "THE PERSONALITY SCIENCE." Wonder where to get such knowledge. Visit....https://personalitytalks.blogspot.nl/2017/01/pandora-charms-personality-type-and.html?m=1

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    1. Detailed analysis from you @Kennedy , Thanks for contributing.

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    1. Yes! Very sad cause it has eaten deep into the society today.

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  4. Very sad and difficult on the families involved :-(

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  5. Transformation of character is must in any relationahip.little girl...then lover
    ..wife...mother and so on.We need to change ourself accepting the reallity of life.Otherwise conflict may arise.This transformation makes any relationship more mature and realistic.. Same to boys...liver...husband...father
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    1. I get your point @Shahin character transformation is vital for a successful relationship. Thanks for your significant feedback.

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  6. I guess it's because we give up easily. Marriage is just about the feeling of love, it involved the commitment, responsibility and willingness to bent and sacrifice for each other.

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  7. Hmmm plenty to think about. I guess you can't always predict failure in a relationship though.

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    1. Yes we can't predict that though @Emily. Thanks for stopping by.

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  8. Divorce rates are generally high in the US!!! This could be due to a number of reasons spanning from both the members at the house hold work and do not get time to spend with each other. The days they have holidays on the weekend they have other things to attend to. The possible situations is to keep in touch regularly and make time to eat a meal together and speak to each other.

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    1. You have a great point there, Always being in touch is vital for a sustainable relationship.

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  9. I often wonder this same question myself. My grandfather passed last week and all I kept thinking was about their marriage and how they really honored till death do us part. 70 years of marriage

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    1. Always a thing to wonder especially with the vows made.

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  10. There are many reasons people can say about this but I, myself will never understand why. How I wish I lived 50 years back, where people honor marriage and are fixing what is broken

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  11. One reason could be that the mariage was not built on love? And as affection is not enough... or maybe they are no longer on the same page and both want something different which makes it hard to stay together and be happy? It's q pretty tough question

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    1. You are well on point Corinne, Love and affection is vital.

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  12. It is sad that there are so many cases today, I'm not sure if perhaps it was because it was harder to get divorced before or if there are other reasons such as people just don't try as hard. It is interesting to think about, but the world has changed so much it could be so many reasons.

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  13. I think that in many cases compatibility is an issue and after time living with someone 24/7 can create issues. Interesting food for thought x

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  14. Divorce is on the decrease, at least in the US. However, until the past two or three generations, divorce was so hard that people stayed married regardless of unhappiness or even abuse, so divorce can be a good thing. Now more people are not getting married, which also skews the stats.

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    1. I do get your point. thanks for contributing.

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  15. We live in a day and age with technology and I think that changes everything. I feel like a lot of people give up more easily too.

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  16. It's so easy just to give up. No one wants to take the energy to fight for love anymore. We live in a world of throw away items and unfortunately, relationships have been placed in this catagory. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 6 and it's not always been a bed of roses, but we continue to fight on...because to us, love is totally worth it! Plus no one else could put up with us :)

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    1. You guys are doing a great job do keep it up it's never easy but it's worth it.

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  17. This day it is just easier to give up and move on, than it is to stay and fight. Unfortunately there are so many cases of divorce in my small town this year :(

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  18. Because I think we have forgotten what love really is. When we think about love being what we get out of it, things do not work out. Because that isn't love at all but selfishness. That doesn't mean that love survives when you are not shown love. But love shouldn't be focused on the self and we are mostly focused on ourselves now.

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    1. Very well said David you are very much on point.

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  19. There are many reasons, some are for the good, some are BS ones. However, love is nit the only factor that needs in the relationships. Friendship and strong bond does.

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    1. Friendship and strong bond are also necessary.

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  20. I think there are so many reasons. I honestly believe, though, that back in time many people were just living unhappy in rotten marriages. Today's society has made divorce more accepting, which has pros and cons.

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    1. You made a really good point Kim,thanks for contributing.

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  21. I have been divorced before and it is horrible. There are many reasons for a divorce. Each case is different from the other. It is not for us to know ir understand if we were not part of the situation.

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    1. Sorry to hear that Kelly, it can really be horrible.

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  22. Marriage is difficult and it's not all just fun and love. You need the basis of love for sure but there's also so many other things that a marriage needs to survive. My marriage is in tact but my husband's addiction has made it really hard to stay married. That doesn't mean we don't love each other.

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    1. In the case of addiction Praying to God can help.

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  23. In church, the priest always say that for richer or poorer, in sickness and health, for better or worse. Sometimes, partners dont do this. Marriage is a give and take. If this wont happen, Marriage will broke.

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    1. You are on point Lily thanks for contributing.

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  24. I have to admit that I'm a divorcee. I got a divorce 30 something years ago. It was an awful experience and I haven't and won't get remarried.

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    1. It must have been really hard on you to take such decision my prayer is that God Almighty will console you and show you the right path. it's well.

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  25. welp, as a divorcee, I can say that I was way too young. I also had my children young and I think that marriage takes a certain level of maturity. You can't be selfish and be married and that's a lesson I learned as I got older.

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  26. I myself don't believe in divorce especially if a couple already has kids. But why keep a relationship that doesn't work anymore. Maybe marriage was not built out of love that is why they ended up to a divorce. (Gee Villaruz)

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    1. Divorce is always hard to take especially when kids are involved. Thanks for your contribution.

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  27. This reminds me of a blog post I wrote sometime ago. I think it all Boils down to people being selfish by nature more willing to receive than to give.

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    1. You made a really nice point there Christiana, selfishness can lead to Divorce.

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